Beautiful babies, special moments…. and an emotional photographer.

Photographing gorgeous gummy babies: it’s a tough job, but someone’s got to do it.

So I was delighted to be asked to photograph baby classes at Mummas & Beans, in Godalming. Nicky, who runs this fab cafe and space for local mums, babies and under-fives, wanted images that would reflect the feel of both the Tinies class (which is for younger babies and involves massage and bonding touch) and the Wrigglers class (which is for slightly older babies and involves music and movement, sound and touch).

I must admit, I was fully prepared  for a large dose of babies crying, possibly even some ear-piercing screaming. It’s only a few years ago that my two girls were babies themselves, so I remember it all very well. (Note: they can still emit a rather spine-curdling scream if they need to!). What I wasn’t expecting was to find a completely calm, rather wonderful, nurturing atmosphere where everyone clearly was completely immersed and enjoying their time at the class – both babies and mummys alike.

It really was a joy to observe and capture the mums and babies playing together and enjoying both each other’s company and also the company of the other mums around them.

I will admit, I actually felt quite emotional whilst witnessing and capturing photographs of it all. I think it was partly the knowledge that this part of my life is most definitely over. It was also the fact that I know these lovely mummys are just at the beginning of their journeys and yet the bonds were obviously already so incredibly strong. That is the miracle of motherhood and it never fails to amaze me.

I also know just how quickly it all passes and how important it is to capture it. Trust me, before you know it, they are 9 years old and already up to your shoulder!

Thank you ladies for letting me watch, capture your classes and have a little trip down Nostalgia Lane. I really enjoyed it, even if my ovaries did ache a little bit afterwards.

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If you love photographing your baby or children and would like to learn how to understand your camera better so that you can really beautifully capture those moments as they grow, I run Creative Photography Workshops for Parents at Mummas and Beans. The next one is this Saturday 22nd June, 1-4.30pm and if you book this week, you get a bonus one-to-one mentoring session as part of the £80 workshop price, worth £125!

Find out more about the workshop here or contact me directly: info@kerryjphotography.co.uk - I am always happy to answer any questions.

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Dads do it differently.

Daddy’s do parenting differently to us mums. Whether it’s more high-key (think winding the kids up into a hyper-frenzy of excitement just before bedtime) or low-key (think giving doughnuts for breakfast), Dads do it differently. After quite a few years of watching this unfold before my eyes, I have come to the conclusion that overall this is a Good Thing.

Although sometimes it might drive me crazy when my kids wail “But DADDY lets us do it”, I wouldn’t want it any other way. So long as me and hubby stay united and cohesive on all the really important parenting matters, then thats all that really matters. And there are most definitely certain things that Dads are GREAT at – throwing kids up in the air, giving shoulder-rides, piggy-backs, (and running along holding the saddle of the bike whilst my daughters tries valiantly to cycle without stabilisers!) to name but a few.

So this one goes out to all those fab dads out there. Carry on doing it differently. (And that includes the dad-dancing thing. Don’t ever stop doing that. Cos it’s just funny.)

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The joy of stomping…

When you’re one and have finally mastered the art of stomping, there is nothing better than putting on a pair of wellies and being allowed out of the pushchair.

Ah, the freedom of it all, the experience of feeling the ground beneath your feet, stopping when YOU want to look around, rather than when mum decides to stop pushing the pushchair. Sometimes you stumble and sometimes you sit down with a thud, onto your bottom. But you just pick yourself back up again and keep on stomping.

The joy of the adventure shines through in your face and when it all gets tiring, you’ve got mummy’s hand to hold onto. Then back home for a restorative biscuit. That’s if your doggy doesn’t munch it up first.

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A perfect little outing, captured. If you would like to capture some of life’s simple pleasure’s in creative photographic portraits of your family, then do get in touch. Wellies not compulsory.

Email me at: info@kerryjphotography.co.uk or give me a buzz on 07879 640484. I’d love to hear from you.

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A place of all things green, mad and wonderful.

I love love LOVE how photos being back snippets of time as if it was yesterday. That is the power of photography and that’s one of the many reasons I love it.

In honour of St. Patrick’s Day, I decided to delve back in to my photo archives from a few years ago, where we were lucky enough to stay with friends who live in Ireland, not far from Dublin. Immediately I was transported back to the beautiful tranquility of the rolling landscape, the wide open empty beaches, the laughs we had with our friends, the simple pleasures of our children playing together, and the amazing friendliness of the Irish.

It’s amazing how images can make you remember all the little moments too….
the biggest prawns I have EVER had….. my introduction to a night out in an Irish local pub (where I swear the drinks just kept mysteriously appearing in front of me and I had no idea who they were coming from)…. buying fresh fish from the little fish shed after the boat had come in…. and the cold blustery day on the beach when man appeared from nowhere in a pair of speedos carrying a big fishing net to go shrimping, accompanied by his dog (we were wearing jeans, jumpers and body warmers!)

Great times, good memories. You can’t ask for more from a photo. And if you’re reading Ciara & John, thanks for the craic xxx

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Musings on being an (im)perfect mum.

“There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.”

You know what? Apart from Mary Poppins (who we all know is practically perfect in every way), I’m not sure there is such a thing as being a perfect mum. And anyway, lets face it, if you could just simply click your fingers to get the tidying up done, then we’d all be laughing, wouldn’t we? (Seriously, I would LOVE that as a super-hero skill.)

But us mums do seem to give ourselves a hard time if we don’t always get it right, don’t we? I don’t know if its just part of being from a generation of women who are made to feel potentially able to ‘do-it-all’: have a career, look amazing, keep fit, eat healthily, bake cakes… oh and raise kids who are equally fantastically doing-it-all too.

I know I seem to be forever feeling guilty about one thing or another… this can randomly range from worrying I have shouted at my children too much today, or that I didn’t get time to do reading with my youngest this week or make up a really inventive Book Day costume, whisk up home made cakes for the cake bake sale or perhaps because I am simply too exhausted after a photoshoot to do anything but heat up some beans on toast for them.

I hope that somewhere along the line, I am doing an OK job though. I tell my daughters that I love them every day, I give copious cuddles at any opportunity, I celebrate their achievements with them (however small), commiserate when things don’t go right and let them know that I will unconditionally be there for them. I’m hoping that if the big things are in place, then maybe the small stuff won’t matter quite so much. Fingers crossed.

So, today, here’s to all of us who are far from being the perfect mum. Let’s celebrate our imperfectly perfect lives and just love our children as best as we can. Happy Mother’s Day.

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A celebration of LOVE. All of it. Happy Valentine’s Day!

“There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time.”  Jane Austen

Its not just about a bunch of red roses or even just about the romantic kinda love. Love comes in many different shapes & forms and at different stages of our lives.

Lets celebrate every last bit of it.

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The specialness of being six.

My littlest turned the grand old age of six this week. Six is a big deal when you are only five. Six holds promise of proper big-girl stuff and the vague possibility that you might actually be catching up with your big sister in the age stakes. Six means you get to have the swimming pool party that you have been coveting for absolutely aaaaages. Six is special.

For me, six means that the chubby-cheeked very-weeny-girl days are definitely over. Already fiercely independant after over a year at school, she now trots into class without even a backwards glance. This of course, makes me feel simultaneously proud whilst a little part of me gets that mummy-ache in my stomach.

Luckily, six still means that she daily asks for ‘mummy-huggies’ and can curl up in my lap completely, thumb in and sit there for ages. Six means that she still reaches to hold my hand whilst we walk to school. And six means that she still likes me to sing a song at bedtime, whilst stroking her hair.

I am going to treasure six. Before I know it, seven will be knocking on the door.

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Re-writing my rules.

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I have a confession to make. Last year I lost my blogging mojo. I don’t know where it went, or even when it disappeared, but by the end of 2012 I knew it was definitely missing.

After a fruitless hunt over Christmas, I knew I needed to just bite the bullet and replace it. With a different blogging-mojo-model. One that hopefully would not get lost this time.

Whilst puzzling over how I had lost it in the first place, I came to the conclusion that it had all become about search engines and marketing myself. Which is all very important I know, but quite frankly, sometimes it *whispers* gets a bit much. And I think that’s where the mojo started to get lost. I had forgotten why I had started to blog in the first place. It was a place to let people get to know me (and my work) a bit better, as well as a place to let my absolute passion for photography and what I can bring to families, shine through.

So, I have decided to re-write my rules a little bit. Or perhaps not even have rules *gasp*.  I am going to bring more of ‘me’ into my blog – more of my life, my family and more about why I love photography. I want it to be more authentic and more inspiring for families and photography-lovers. I shall be inviting some other people along too, as guests. Be warned, there may be some witterings and quirky photo randomness as we go.

I would love to bring you along for the ride too, if you’d like to join me. It would be fab to get the occasional comment that isn’t from someone doing that weird spamming thing (what IS that about anyway?). I have a spanky new facebook plugin which makes it very simple and quick to say something, I promise.

I have lots of ideas buzzing around in my head for the blog this year, as I have for my business. I am going to be brave, in lots of ways. It’s going to be a blast. I have a brand-new 2013 Mojo. Hurrah.

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A few words from me & wishing everyone a Very Merry Christmas!

Its nearly time to say goodbye to 2012, but where on earth did it go? Is it me or does this year seems to have raced past at breakneck speed?

It was a slightly frustrating start to 2012 with soooo much rain – I actually had to reschedule more Portrait sessions that I have ever had to do during the previous years all put together! Once again, I have met and photographed some amazing families and also had the joy of re-visiting some families I have previously photographed and got to see how their families have grown! As always, it is a real priviledge to be invited into people’s lives and document it for them.

This year I really feel that I am beginning to define my own ‘voice’ in my work and I realise more and more that what I really love to photograph are the little connections and uniqueness of each and every family. As it is always really difficult to pick out favourites from all the photographs I have taken in the past 12 months, this year I decided to take the theme ‘Connection’ and pick out just 10 images that I feel demonstrate this in a beautiful way.

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Thank you to everyone who has supported me this year and given me encouragement about my work. It always means the world to me when I get wonderful feedback from families and especially when I make a grown woman (or man!) cry when they see their images… being the slightly over-emotional person I am, it quite often almost sets me off too!

I have lots of plans afoot that I am very excited about in 2013, but for now I am looking forward to spending a bit of time with my own family, accompanied by the obligatory overload of turkey, chocolate and mulled wine!

I will leave you with my own personal favourites of my two girls, taken this year. Wishing everyone a wonderful, relaxing Christmas and Happy New Year. See you in 2013!

K xx

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“Time moves in one direction, memory in another” – William Gibson

The strangeness of time. We all know that sometimes it seems to drag and other times it seems to speed up. This is especially true of the journey of becoming a parent.

The whole growing a baby part…. well, that 9 months can seem a very long time. (Lets not talk about how long those last few weeks feel like, where you actually start to waddle like a lame duck. Or was that just me?)

And then the newborn stage – its so amazing, intense and such a blur that you sometimes may well feel like you are stuck in a time-warp of an endless cycle of feeding, sleeping, changing. You can be almost unaware of days passing by in your little baby bubble. Then one day you realise that you don’t have a teeny weeny little baby anymore.

And there lies your first taste of the bittersweet nature of parenthood. Its wonderful to watch them grow, to learn, to discover. In fact, its more than wonderful. But there is also a small part of you that knows that those fleeting times can never be recaptured.

This is why I truly believe there is something really special about offering newborn photography in a creative and documentary style for parents. I often have clients tell me how much they look back and really treasure those little moments I captured, in the early days.

My approach is very simple. I come to your home and I photograph you and your baby just being yourselves. I allow plenty of time for changes, feeding and anything else that is needed.  We go with the flow and capture life as it is: tiny toes, curled up limbs and the sheer wonder of having this little person in your lives written all over your faces.

This is exactly what happened in the Photo Session featured below. It was an absolute joy to visit this family a week after their daughter was born and photograph them as a family. Hope you enjoy them.

K x

 

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